James Niels Skousen and Sidsel Marie Pedersen
(Grandpa Taylor's great-grandparents, my 3rd great-
ALSO Nana's great-grandparents through her adopted mother Wilmirth Skousen)
The strong, wiry Dane, James (Jens) was born September 30, 1828 in Herslev, Denmark. His strong will and unwillingness to change his mind once made up, served him well. This strong will was mellowed by a very jolly nature- he loved a good joke. Sidsel was born August 23, 1826, also in Denmark.
James nearly drowned twice as a little boy but was rescued both times. He was raised in the household of his uncle until he was 18 and then was on his own. It seems he took this maternal uncle's last name rather than his father's. All young men were required to do military service and he dreamed of serving in the prestigious cavalry. Though he was technically too short at 5'8", he worked hard to become an excellent rider, and his persistence paid off when he was finally accepted to the Royal Guard Cavalry, where he got to ride beautiful horses in his red and white uniform. He soon became a very good boiler engineer.
In 1856 he married the happy, good-natured Sidsel Marie Pedersen (pronounced Cecil) in the Aarhus Cathedral, after already living in a common law marriage for a few years. They faced great sorrow when their first baby daughter died at 2 months of age. He had heard rumors of the Mormon missionaries luring Danish girls to their "harems" in the American West, and went to a meeting at a neighbor's house- Lars O. Madsen- to check them out.
Typical of his decisive, strong nature, he was convinced of the truth of their message and was baptized the same night with his wife. (March 8, 1857) He recalled a "dark power" that came over him as he left the house to be baptized, but the dark power instantly disappeared when he came out of the water, replaced with a "new, sweet spirit." Joining the new church caused him to be fired from his job, jeopardizing their careful plans to emigrate to Zion, but he soon got a better job as an engineer. He was also soon called to preside over a branch of the church in Denmark. Sidsel was a bright young woman who was filled with excitement and couldn't wait to share the gospel message with her family. She was heartbroken at their cold response, especially her teacher brother who responded, "Why do you come to me with such a message? Am I not better learned than you?"

James and his family left Denmark for the United States on April 8, 1862, taking almost every penny they had. By the time their wagon train left Florence, NB for the Salt Lake Valley, Sidsel was big pregnant. They had two young sons, and had lost two young children before emigrating. While pregnant Sidsel rode in the wagon, James walked the whole way to Zion with one year old Willard astride his shoulders, and 5 year old Peter walking alongside, holding his father's hand. Their company was headed by John R. Murdock and left July 24, 1862. The company was largely made up of Scandinavian saints.
Sidsel gave birth to Hannah Marie (my great-great grandmother) on August 2, 1862 while camped by the Platte River. I can't imagine what that would be like, to give birth in a wagon camp by a river! They would have nine children together. They safely arrived in the Salt Lake valley on September 27, 1862. The total journey from their homeland had taken 5 1/2 months, leaving behind green Danish countryside for a desolate land with scarcely the clothes on their backs.
James worked as a stonecutter on temple square, but his hands and wrist became so swollen that within a few days he had to stop - and became a farmer, settling near Lehi,and finally near Draper. During the bitter, snowy winter, he had to walk the ten miles to Draper to get flour and carry it up the mountain. After 4 years of hardship and farming for others, James was able to purchase some land in Draper with an adobe house of their own. They learned a hard work ethic that served them well, everyone in the family pitching in. During the winters they would go up the canyon and haul wood to Salt Lake to trade for needed goods. In September 1869, James and Sidsel made the trip to the Salt Lake City endowment house to be sealed. They left their children with Ane Jorgensen Hansen, a recent Danish immigrant who had a hard time finding work because of a crippled knee. They took her in and paid her to help in their home as a way to help her.
About a year later, Sidsel announced one day that James should marry Ane and raise another family, startling her husband. He replied with dismay that he could barely take care of one family. Sidsel replied, "You better make up your mind to marry her, because you're going to take care of her anyway. She is a cripple, has no home or family to go to, and I'm not turning her out." He gave in and married Ane as his second wife, he would have 8 more children with her. One day while reading in Doctrine Covenants 89- he threw his pipe into the fire and said he would never use it again. The Word of Wisdom was more of a suggestion than a commandment at the time, but when James felt strongly about something he never went back.

Ane, Sidsel, and James Skousen
James was soon called to help settle east-central Arizona. It was difficult for them to leave all they had worked for on their farm, and many tears were shed. Some suggested he take one of his families and go for a couple years and then return to his farm after fulfilling his duty. James responded, "Brigham Young is a prophet of God and when a prophet calls, I will accept the call and do my best to fulfill it." So he sold his farm and took his families with him to the harsh Arizona wilderness, to live the "Big Table Order," a communal farm. After 3 difficult years of crop failures and dams washing out, they eventually settled in Springerville, then Alpine.
He was imprisoned in the Yuma Penitentiary in 1884 for "unlawful cohabitation." (See Prisoner's Diary account on family search) The prison was known for its harsh conditions, the trials were a farce, and the prisoners were forced to do heavy labor in terrible heat with bad food. Despite the infamous stories of the prison, the LDS prisoners were treated fairly well, and James was given the assignment of looking after the prison superintendent's two sons- taking them fishing and coming and going as he pleased. He served an extra month on top of his 6 month sentence because he couldn't afford to pay the $500 fine. Once released, he moved part of his family including Sidsel to Colonia Juarez in Mexico, where Latter-day Saints were settling, in order to avoid further prosecution for polygamy by the U.S. Government. Ane stayed on the farm in Arizona. Many tears were shed when James and Sidsel were parted- they had been sweethearts for many years, and Ane considered her a sister. Some of her children were already living in Colonia Juarez, and they took her with them. She was 60.
When Sidsel became seriously ill in 1897, James left his family in Arizona to go and be with her, and was with her when she died on February 20, 1898. A stake Patriarch, and knowing that his other wife Ane was being cared for by her older sons, James decided to stay on in Mexico with his older children and moved in with his daughter, Hannah Taylor. His patriarch calling was transferred to the Juarez stake. Patriarch James N. Skousen, with his clipped white beard, big grin, and heavy Danish accent, was a fixture in the colonies. He loved young people and was known walk up to them and put his arm around them while asking if they had found their eternal mate yet. This was not always appreciated but in his jolly way he would ignore the embarrassment and dirty looks and move on to the next young person! His grandchildren loved him and would run to him to find the candy that was always in his pocket. His daughter Hannah was much like her mother and provided a warm home for him.

The Mexican Revolution of 1912 drove most of the Saints back to the States, and James being so anxious to get to his old home in Alpine, hitched a ride with a family heading that way from Thatcher. Because of the large size of the family, he had to sleep in the cold under the wagon at the age of 84 and caught cold. He died shortly after on October 21, 1912 in Alpine, and was buried in the cemetery there. Ane lived four more years and then was buried beside him.
James was a good natured man of his word, with twinkling blue eyes that could pierce the soul. It has been said that his face was beautiful to look upon for the love and spirituality that radiated from it, and though his features were strong, they remained soft until the end of his life. James and Sidsel never accumulated wealth of this world, but they were rich in faith and dedicated themselves to the gospel of Christ from the moment they heard it. He cheerfully gave all he had to the work of the Lord, raising 15 out of 17 children to maturity, and serving as a patriarch for many years. Over 2000 descendants of these faithful pioneers are alive today. With their natural zest for life, pluck and hard work, and unwavering testimony of the gospel- nothing kept them down for long and they firmly believed that as long as they were doing what was right, things would work out for them.
-Adapted from James' life story "The Gentle Patriarch"- by Max B. Skousen and Meryle M. Galisse on Family Search
-For even more details about their lives, read the full account on Family Search!
A TRIBUTE TO SIDSEL
BY
PETER C. WOOD
Written on Her Birthday Anniversary
August 23, 1896
Your yoke was easy, your burden light,
For Jesus made it so.
And the angels hovered round about
Which gave you life anew.
An exile for the love of God
This we know is true.
Because thou will not leave the Lord
And do as others do.
The Lord has given you great blessings.
On your head He did bestow
All powers--keys-gifts and blessings
That can be given here below.
A queen in Heaven you wilt be;
Your life seems just begun.
Eternal life, we know, awaits you;
Your glory is that of the sun.
Age is creeping over you, Mother,
Three-score-ten you are today.
You'll meet the Savior in power and glory,
For you we humbly bow and pray.
We know thou art a righteous soul
A faithful mother, too.
A kind and noble parent,
To God thou hast been true.
Thou didst leave thy native land,
All for the love of God.
Embracing truth and righteousness,
Holding fast the iron rod.
Trials great thou hast withstood,
You've conquered every foe.
Salvation's wrought upon thy brow,
Thou art for God we know.
When James was taken from thy side,
Imprisoned without just cause,
Insulted--abused--and mocked,
For keeping God's holy laws.
Twas then your heart did nearly break.
It seemed a heavy stroke.
You bowed and prayed to God,
"O Lord, make easy my yoke."
By: Nate Skousen, Jr.
From: "Ladies of the Church: Sketches of the Faith, Sacrifice and Courage of the Pioneering Ladies of the Church"